the red and blue of me

Holy guacamole! Nobody...NO BODY told me that the first year of marriage was going to be HARD! I knew marriage is hard work but I didn't think it was going to be this hard. Man! I feel like I am a triangle being transformed to a circle or an ice cube slowly melting to its liquid state. It's friggin hard! All of our differences are now maginified! All of my values, priorities are challenged! I'm tired and sometimes a bit depressed. I have perfected the art of being single and have managed my single life very well - emotionally, socially, spiritually and financially! Now that I am married, I am completely lost! None of my previous rules apply! Every single aspect of my way of living has changed. I am a complete mess!
AAAGGHHHHH!!!